Thursday, April 29, 2010

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

Yeah, it's me, can you believe it?

I figured if I didn't write something soon there would be a mutiny in blogland.

It's been about a month since I took this hiatus and it took me until today to figure out what the hell my problem is.  It's this.  I've been feeling disenchanted.  Unable to write about what I really want to write about.  Imagine how you'd feel if the thing that had been foremost in your mind was off-limits for your blog.  How would you deal with that?  How would it make you feel?  Disenchanted!!!  Right?  Right?????

I can't get into any details, but let me just say that my title should give you a tiny clue.  No, it's not me who's gone bat-shit crazy, but someone in my vicinity.  This psychotic individual did everything in his/her (ooh, it's a he-she?  Possibly... never thought of that)  Anyhoo... they did everything they could to try and smear my character; using lies, deceit and their sociopathic (Def:
a person, as a psychopathic personality, whose behavior is antisocial and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience.)
tendencies to do so.  Did it work?  Of course not.  The person is bat-shit crazy and everyone but he/she knows it.  Sad actually.

Pitiful, in fact.

And why did this person turn vengeful?

Get this.  You're not gonna believe it.

Because I hurt his/her feelings.

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

Usually, the proper response to having your feelings hurt is to tell the person who hurt them.  Either work it out, or no longer be their friend.

If, on the other hand, you're bat-shit crazy, you can instead make up a ton of lies, corner the husband and children in the street and profess those lies as fact, then run your crazy-ass mouth all over the neighborhood trying to garner sympathy because "Justine is so mean."

You could put in complaints to Facebook that your "wildlife photography" is being used as a copyright infringement and also tell Facebook that Justine is stalking youBut then Facebook just looks at your chat history and such and sees that Justine has had almost no contact with you in months.  Stalking indeed.

You could then contact blogger and cry copyright infringement there too.  But Justine has written proof that she was given permission to use said pictures.

To further your cause of stalking and infringement, you may go into Facebook and blogger and take down every single comment you've ever left so that it looks like you never knew me.  Good for you!

I still have copies.

So.  When all this came to fruition, did I run from house to house, shouting at the top of my lungs that I'd been done wrong?  Did I show proof of each accusation being a lie?

No, I didn't, although I do have proof, and plenty of it.

I'm not quite sure how to definitively prove that I haven't had several affairs while married, but that's neither here nor there.  The people who matter know that's not true and that's good enough for me.

All this time I've been seething while taking the high road because I wouldn't allow myself to be heard, except to a token few whom I'm close to.  For the most part, it will remain as it has been for over a month because staying quiet, not naming names, is the right thing to do, both legally and morally.

I guess this post doesn't actually fall under the category of "staying quiet" but it does, on the other hand, fall under the category of, "Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!"

It's hard to fight crazy because it just makes the crazy person more crazy.  Of course, ignoring crazy person probably makes them even more crazy.

Which, come to think of it, is kind if fun.

Imagine Nurse Ratched as one of the patients and you'll kind of get an idea about him/her.

This also comes to mind.

Confused yet?  I'm sure most of you are.  Some know exactly what I'm talking about.

Things here have been nice and calm for about a month now.  But how much do you want to bet that said bat-shit crazy person is going to read this and then strike out on another war path against me?  I guess that would be okay, being that he/she doesn't have a legal leg to stand on.  As long as he/she stays the hell away from my home and my kids it's all good.

End of rant.

26 "Sister" Lovin' Friends Said:

  • AndreaLeigh

    how very sad. seriously. what kind of person does that?

  • roy/elisabeth dean

    Tiney...quit pretending!
    EVERYONE knows you have been sleeping with me for YEARS! Roy too, sometimes!
    So, you were found out. How could you expect he/she NOT to find out and go all psychotic on yo ass?
    And QUIT stalking other men/women or I will go bat-shit crazy on you too~
    Have a lovely day, don't let him/her cause you a second of unhappiness~

  • Jill

    Make a citizen's arrest and put he/she on a 72 hour psych hold!!
    Welcome back!

  • NurseChessie

    so I wait an ENTIRE length of like forever, rush over here to finally read something fun... and then? I get to go away TOTALLY confused. and what? your cheating on someone? LOL. I love "the category of ahhhh" lol. hope ya feel better.

    love ya

  • Jo

    Glad to see you back I had been wondering where you were...sometimes the best thing to do is take the high road.........

  • Rena

    Awwww, sorry to hear you've been having problems lately. I hope things start looking up for you soon.

  • Rena

    Awwww, sorry to hear you've been having problems lately. I hope things start looking up for you soon.

  • Michele

    Yikes...sounds like a totally bitch to me...glad you're back and I MISSED YOU!

    Big hugz...hope the hubby and kids are doin good!


  • Life on the Edge

    I wondered why you had not been posting! I sure missed you. Glad you're back!


  • cindy

    I'm so confused. Cant you just tell me who it is?....(like it really matters to me)...but the nosey side of me wants to! (sorry this happened to you...lifes to short.)

  • Ginger

    I know exactly what you are talking about, and I think taking the high road is probaby the best way to handle it. Drives people even more crazy when you ignore them.
    Now how about a post about how your visit with your aunt and uncle went. I want to hear about all the fun stuff you did. Did Uncle David take Strudel home with him? lol.

  • Grand Pooba

    Ew. I hate people like that. I kind of think I know what you're talking about but I can't find the post where you originally wrote about it. Maybe you took it down, or maybe I don't know what the hell I'm talking about.

    But ew. Sorry you have to deal with such psychotics in your life! I'm sorry!

    Just make sure you don't hurt anyone's feelings again. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

  • Gucci Mama

    I'm pretty sure I'd have a tough time taking the high road in your situation. Bravo to you for being all mature and shit.

  • The Queen

    I once had friends do this to me. they started a blog and referred to my terminally ill husband as my half dead other half. They were twats.. and so is this person..

    if you wrestle with pigs,, the pigs have all the fun..and you will just get muddy..

    my advice.. ignore the pigs..

  • Brianne

    Well shit! Saying that "blows" would be an understatement. I'm glad to see you back, but sad that you're dealing with some crazy person! Love that you're awesome enough to take the highroad!

  • Elizabeth

    How awful to have to deal with a crazy who is in both your real life and internet life. At least my crazies don't have cross-over!
    I want to hear about your visit with your aunt and uncle! And what's up with Jill?

  • Sue

    Um, I think you proposed to me after I sent you that rockin' Secret Santa package. Does that constitute an affair? I am sorry for whatever has been going on. I miss you and love you <3

  • Life with Kaishon

    Justine! I wondered where you were. And I missed you. Missed you. Missed you.

    Are you serious? Who acts like that? Creepy. I always worry that someone will do something bad with all of my blog posts too.

    I still write though. It might not be the smartest thing to do...but you know, I am not the smartest girl on the planet.

    Hope everything works out ok. Much love and many blessings.

  • Shelia

    Justiney! I've missed you and am so sorry to hear you've had a 'crazy' about! I really admire you for staying quiet. I know it's not easy to do sometimes. I'm so sorry for this to have happened to you! I knew something was wrong when a while back I posted a Bathroom Diva shot of Makayla and you didn't respond!
    Bless your heart! I'm hear for you!
    Love ya,
    Shelia ;)

  • santamaker

    Best advice comes from Gollum..."stop feeding the trolls". Ignoring he/she will be the best revenge.

  • wendy

    Yikes Justine, I don't know what to say but that is crazy.
    WHY do we have these crazy bat shit people around to hassle us eh.

    Just post what you want. Sheeeesh.

  • Jenny

    Some people really, totally need to get a life.

    You want I should beat the person up?

    I'm willing.

    I have a rolling pin.

    And a cast iron skillet.

    Let me at 'em!


    I'm sorry you got hurt.

    It's probably jealousy. People are petty like that sometimes.

    But, Justine?

    I like you!!!!!!

  • Jason, as himself

    Yeah, I'm kind of confused, but I do know that this whole thing sounds just gross and if it were me I would be feeling just gross. And you're right, you can't fight crazy.

    Good luck, and I hope this issue doesn't come back again.

    I've missed you!

  • MJ's doghouse i dont know you as well as most of your blog buddies...but the think i liked the best out of your blog was that you were in fact ...."batshit crazy...|" and now you claim you just hope you start blogging soon...have a good weekend...and tell your sister it is time for her to start bloggoing too...i miss you both so much..i am searching for some new fun blogs....people are getting way too boring on here...

  • Tootsie

    wow...I thought you guys were friends with your neighbors! sorry to hear this!

  • Tabby

    It never stops to amaze me the level some people will stoop to harass people online and in person. Glad you are back and don't keep quiet let it all out that's how we like it.